I'm the Mars. I felt taken advantage of for being attracted to them. Like I can't say "no."BUT also I have Pluto trine his Mars. I've read that this one can make the people avoid each other at first.
Well when I am not ready to let my guard down. We will be close to each other in the same room. He has also just straight up swooped in if I am uncomfortable with a guy interacting with me. Or sometimes it seems like he will just appear if I am getting too flirty. Everything he posts on FB messes with my head, in general. In person, I've felt chased, hunted, groomed. (we haven't had sex, but still I'm married)
We also are both refusing to like anything on each others FB right now. When it's like I know we see each other's stuff. I really feel like I need to clear my head.
I've been kind of taking more social media detox. I don't want this person so in my business anymore. And I'm sick of seeing everything they are doing, saying, and commenting on. It messes with my head to much.
Starting to really face the music about how this person asserts their dominance over me, has made me paranoid, and not wanting to see myself in the mirror.